Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Will You be My Cultural Attache?


I've been asked the question recently of how many women I've slept with since my marriage opened up. One person really wanted to know. Well for starters, it's none of your business but more important I don't have a number. I don't sit there and put a notch on my surfboard after I've had sex. But what I do think about, and how fucking strange is this, is where my partners are from. I like to think in terms of global positioning, and how these women have offered something unique based upon their cultural differences.

For many of you that are reading my blog, you know that I have been catching up on lost time. I, my naive self, got married very young, and had little to no sexual experience. I was a casualty of my own religious paradigm. I saw the world has black and white and my views were very conservative. When I lost my religion, I then saw a whole new world and suddenly the rules were totally fucking different. And so when the old rules didn't apply any longer I started to find a new found freedom in my sexuality and my fantasies that I never ever thought I would enjoy. That freedom is quite possibly the greatest benefit of having an open relationship. Monogamy will never get that, will never grasp it, or comprehend it.

So the first time I got to enjoy my new found freedom was with a beautiful Russian. A gorgeous girl who was also a model. Yea, I got off to a good start, not everyone can or will be so lucky. Then there was a Latina, an African American, a woman from Afghanistan, Israel, Canada, a woman from Kentucky (is that really in America?), a Jewish woman, and finally a Korean woman. I confess that I had to open Google Earth just to double check all the places that I've been, not literally, just figuratively.

Let me be clear that I don't share this list for bragging purposes, but because they each offered me a cultural sexual experience. And now I wonder what part of the earth I'll be visiting next.

7 comments:

Ms Bitchtits to You said...

Which did you find the most "shocking" cultural exchange experience, and why?

(i came here because, "If Kate digs ya', you must be cool.")

mina said...

Firsty, Your story is EXACTLY like my fiance's. He stayed in a marriage for 6 years for all those same reasons. He finally decided to do something about it and after realizing his wife would never be the woman he desired, he got a divorce.

Secondly, your sexual experience is very much like mine. At the age of 23 I finally broke things off with my current bf, whom I had been in a dead end realtionship for 6 1/2 years. That's when my sex life really kicked in. Let's see... cuban, albanian, romanian, mexican, persian, american... that's all I can think of for now. lol

Sexie Sadie~ said...

Texas!!!! It's like being in a whole other world....

xo~Sadie

Dewey's System said...

Hi Ms. Bitchtits and thank you for coming along for the ride. It's a great question. The most shocking was not really so much to do with where they were from but rather what each person did. I found that in general, the younger women, including Russian model were very timid and a little bit boring. They mostly enjoyed the receiving then the giving. The older women were by far the best in terms of giving and receiving. It seems to me that the older you ladies are, then the better the sex will be.

I guess that's a side note, but the answer is that the Korean dazzled me, thus shocking me with her amazing skills in giving me oral sex. Yes! Her blowjobs were the most amazing I've ever had. I wish she could teach a class, in Korean though, so we'd need a translator. She knew the golden secret that the cock starts all the way down below the balls, and just slightly below there ;). She used her fingers and I think some kind of magical spell that left me dazed and even more dazed, for dayz. :)

Hi Mina - I'm happy that your fiance woke up out of his sexual slumber to eventually find you. It sounds like you two are really enjoying the quality of your relationship. I'll be getting to it very soon to read more about you guys. I smiled at your sexual "melting pot" of men. That's kinda what I thought when I read that.

Sadie, oh Sexie Sadie, I've had my eye on Texas for a while. Just imagining what that world, your world, would be like. I would like to think that being "in your world" would be like visiting an unexplored universe. Time to get my compass and explorer's gear.

Ms Bitchtits to You said...

Hmmm, i think i need to broaden my horizons! ;-)

Hubman said...

Damn man, you get around, globally speaking! I've been with my fair share (and maybe more) since Veronica and I started swinging, but with no where near the variety you've experienced!

I've with you 100% on the age thing. The best fucks have been the 40+ yr old women, without a doubt. The worst? The 25 yr old hottie who just laid there. I'm 39, btw...

Sexy PTA Mom said...

Dewey, I loved reading this. I'm glad the whole world has opened up to you!