Monday, September 6, 2010

I'm Done

I'm officially quiting.  Hanging up the hat, and leaving for good.  I started this blog with the intent of working on my Ashley Madison skills and hoping to procure new ones.  There was also this faint hope of meeting other women who are bloggers and using AM.  Maybe, I thought, I would have a better chance meeting my type of woman who was using that site if she could see more of me, more of my personality than what AM allows for.  You may recall that I was using that site for a long time and had just a few experiences that kept me going back to it.  Most of the time it was a lot of fucking wasted time.

In the meantime, the blog gave so much more than I could have imagined.  You, my blog crushes, and the few men who stay in touch gave me so many ideas and inspired me to pursue what I've always wanted, whatever that want was.  And what I want now has nothing to do with AM anymore.

Ohhh, what... what  did you think I meant?  I'm not qutting blogging I'm quiting AM, for good.

I've emailed Mr. Riff Dog to see if he wants my credits.  He deserves them.  What an amazing writer and flair that man has.   ashleyandme  I thought to myself, if I could write as half as good as him that I might enjoy blogging.  So thanks Riff.

I don't need Ashley Madison anymore.  It's just not my thing .  It hasn't been now for a while.  The last time I met someone from there I had to end it before it even got started really because suddenly I felt like I wasn't being truthful about my current situation.  Yes, I told her I was married, but no, I didn't tell her that divorce papers were filed.  You see, there's an underlying theme to AM and one which I don't want anything more to do with: cheating and lying.  Mind you, I never cheated on my wife, or have cheated on a partner in which I was in a monogamous relationship with.  But, most of the people I was meeting were cheating and that doesn't feel right to me now.  My preference is more for a totally honest/open approach to sex, and to relationships.  

Goodbye AM.  Of course the blog continues.  How could I close down the fountain of inspiration that pours through?

16 comments:

Hubman said...

I'm glad to see that you're not completely quitting! I couldn't quit some of these wonderful ladies we know either!

Green Eyed Frenchy said...

Phew! I almost thought you were quitting for real! So, we still will enjoy your great posts and superb body! How lucky we really are! Smiles!

Charlene said...

Man, I was shocked!

I thought you were giving up sex.

Danielle said...

I JUST started reading you, so I am really glad that you are not quiting the blog. Yeesh

T said...

Oh Dewey... I love reading you. This post made me smile big.

You deserve all that you want.

Jillian said...

*Sighs* followed by hands clapping in anticipation of things to come.

Foxy said...

Massive sigh of relief. I thought your blog was about to disappear and that would bring huge disappointment Dewey!

EllaGirl said...

I so totally understand your point of view. Life is too short not go for exactly what you want. Be well. Be happy, Dewest - xo E.

Cheeky Minx said...

I'll join the collective sigh of relief here.

And to say I'm happy you're not only sticking around but that you're embracing your desires would be something of an understatement, Dewberry... xx

Rosie said...

Wooo, I thought my usual karma was at work. I had just finished reading through your archives, added you to the reader, and then poof. Or so it seemed at first glance. You are in an interesting situation and no AM might not be the place for you - maybe AFF or Alt.

Topaz said...

youjackassyoujackassyoujackass! UGH! Never give me a heart attack like that again! I fell for your ruse... I'm just glad it's not the blog you're quitting :-)



As for AM,I have no experience with which to comment. But it is clear you're seeing a future direction, which is always healthy.

And lol @ Charlene's comment. That'll be the day!

Vixen said...

That wasn't funny! Don't freak a girl out like that first thing in the morning! Especially a sick one! ;)

I'm with you on AM, as you read in my post the other day regarding dating sites in general. I found AM wasn't for me for the reasons you mentioned. While *I'm* not cheating on my spouse, I'm not sure I want to be with someone who is cheating on theirs bc along with it comes the lying, sneaking around and.....DRAMA.

Def. happy to hear you are going to be around awhile longer! xo

vixen kitten said...

Cheating and lying are never a good thang, so it's prolly a *good* goodbye.

And, since it's my first visit, I'm happy the blog is staying too.

xoxo
~vk~

Meagan said...

Yeah' Dewey, you had me scared there for a minute. I really enjoy your post, not to mention you're a good dude. I know this universe will bless you with the person of your dreams! How do I know you ask? Simply because you're a good dude and a great dad!

To thine own self be true...
Meagan

CbE said...

phew, i'm glad you aren't done with blogging! I just found you. lol

alive_she_cried said...

Scared me too, Dewey babe. I'm with you on the AM thing though...I haven't been on there in ages. Good luck sweetie.